The Truth About You: Your Secret to Success

It seems that every morning, we wake up to news about layoffs, downsizing, and bankruptcies.

But every day, I also see and hear about entrepreneurial enterprises that are enjoying tremendous successes.

And I wonder – every day – what’s the difference between success and failure? How do small organizations build and maintain a culture of aggressive, innovative decision-making? It seems this is a skill set and a climate that needs to permeate every person in a successful business.

Today I’m realizing that, perhaps, at least part of the answer is hidden in a brown envelope that was in my mail box yesterday.

The Truth About You: Your Secret to Success is the latest offering from Marcus Buckingham. A couple of weeks ago, I learned that Thomas Nelson Publishing has a blogger book review program. Got a blog? Commit to posting a book review – good or bad – and the company sends you a book. I picked Buckingham’s “book.”

It’s not a “book” as much as it is an interactive multimedia kit, featuring a narrative, a DVD and short film, along with a customized notebook for participants – because if you properly use this material, you’re much more than a “reader” – to apply Buckingham’s principles.

I’m in the midst of Section 2, which means I’ve actively completed the following:

  1. Read the introduction
  2. Viewed the 20 minute film
  3. Answered a series of questions & identified my interests
  4. Grasped that a strength is an activity that makes me strong and a weakness is an activity that makes me weak – regardless of whether I’m particularly good or bad at that activity

The next phase of my journey with this material is to spend a week with the “rememo” notepad included in the kit. I’ll be actively logging my activities that finish this statement, “I felt strong when…”

Later, I’ll be concentrating on the flip side of the notebook – “I felt weak (drained, bored) when…”

And Buckingham has already explained in the film and in the early stages of the reading material that “your secret to success” lies in weekly evaluating — and improving on — your strengths. For the rest of your life.

Also important? Not so much “working on” your weaknesses. Certainly not “improving” your weaknesses. The word he uses is “neutralizing” your weaknesses. I like that. A lot. In fact, thinking that way makes me feel strong.

This title is a journey within a journey. Buckingham wants to change the way we think about ourselves and our careers. He wants us to align ourselves with people who are strong where we’re weak. One of the questions I answered today surprised me. I realized how much I love working with people who are strong in areas where I’m weak – and that I thrive on working with people who recognize and respect my strengths.

I admit it – when I opened the brown envelope last night, I thought, “I’ll spend a couple of hours with this and knock out a review.” Well, I’ve done just that – but I also am committed to following through with the program.

Through the questions, I’ve learned something else about myself. I love learning about new ideas – and sharing them with others. I also love making connections between people and ideas.

So, I’m committing to not only continuing Buckingham’s recommendations from The Truth About You: Your Secret to Success, but also posting about my progress.

Guess what? This process affords me the opportunity to do combine some activities that make me feel strong – learning about and sharing new ideas and connecting these empowering concepts with someone who may feel like a victim of poor decision-making by a corporation or big-government bureaucracy.

The Truth About You: Your Secret to Success mentions nothing about external environments or recessions. In fact, Buckingham is explicit when he explains this process is about you and me. It is not about how we feel when “things are done to us by others.” Wow! How powerful is that?

I wonder if, when individuals succeed, organizations are stronger and our nation’s economy improves.

Come back next week. I’ll share what I learned about my strengths.

Election aftermath – the public’s eyes

“Wasn’t that great – thank God it’s over” seems to be an overly-simplified public sentiment in the wake of last week’s election.

The Pew Research Center for the People and the Press has published an interesting installment of its News Interest Index.

82% say they’re glad it’s all over.

55% say they’ve socked away a copy of the next day’s newspaper for posterity.

Americans seem to be sharply divided over a “favorite” political commentator. That guy Bill Oh on Fox is among the best-liked – and worst-liked.

60% of respondents failed to answer a question about their “least favorite” commentator.

My take? Noise. They’re making noise. On air personalities are looking for big pay checks. And we’re finally beginning to understand their words aren’t in the public’s best interests.

If this guy’s right, I’m in big trouble…

I can’t fish, farm, sew, sail, entertain, engineer, build, compute, tech, or repair.

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Thank you, veterans and families

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The day after…

Did your candidates win? Or lose? I got a taste of both, frankly.

This morning’s post from one of my new favorite blogger/tweeters is Michael Hyatt, the head honcho at Thomas Nelson Publishers. You know, the publishing house that most likely printed your Bible. The organization responsible for Women of Faith and all sorts of related devotionals, kids books, etc.

Read his post this morning about OUR new president:

I want to do my part. Therefore, starting today, I am publicly making four commitments to President-Elect Barack Obama:

  1. I will pray for him and our country. 
  2. I will assume his motives are good, giving him the benefit of the doubt. 
  3. I will not speak ill of him, even if I don’t always agree with him. 
  4. I will cast off the spirit of cynicism, and be a positive force for good.

Yesterday was a historic day. We can all be proud as Americans. Today, we begin a new future. It’s time to come together. I am ready for a united United States.

Good morning, my fellow Americans.

Governor Beebe is right – again…

Today’s Arkansas Democrat Gazette quotes Arkansas Governor Mike Beebe about the potential of waiting in line to vote tomorrow:

“If I have to wait, I have to wait. I don’t care,” said Gov. Mike Beebe, a Democrat who planned to cast his vote in White County Tuesday morning. “That will be one of the most pleasant waits I have if (I) have to wait for a long line of voters.”

The same story, Arkansas prepares for busy presidential election,  Secretary of State Charlie Daniels says he expects 65 to 70 percent of registered Arkansas voters to participate in this election, adding that already nearly a quarter of all registered voters in the state have cast early ballots – a record.

About tomorrow – Election Day

I’ve heard a few people boast that Nov. 4 is “Obama” Day. Others retort, “No! It’s McCain Day!”

You know what? It’s ELECTION DAY! Not overthrow day, not coup day, not anarchy day. ELECTION day.

Here’s my favorite definition:

The process whereby eligible persons vote to determine who will hold a political office. [top]
www.arlingtonva.us/Departments/VoterRegistration/VoterRegistrationTermsTrivia.aspx

More than a few friends work for federal elected officials. Their lives will be directly impacted by tomorrow’s election. As will mine, and yours.

I cast my first presidential ballot for Ronald Reagan. I was excited and proud. Honored to do my civic duty. This election has been tough. I’ve been “undecided” for months. During that time, I’ve grown weary of sniping and predictions of dire consequences if one party or candidate wins over the other.

You know what? One party and one candidate WILL win over the other. And Wednesday morning we’ll all still be Americans. When the new president takes office in January, we’ll still be Americans. Oh my, what a beautiful day it will be – no matter who takes the oath of office. Friends, that peaceful transfer of power is what makes us Americans.

During 1992, I covered Bill Clinton’s presidential campaign – from his announcement to election night in Little Rock. I also covered the GOP convention in Houston that year. I won’t tell you who I voted for that year – out of pride for being an unbiased professional.

I won’t tell you who I voted for today – because I ask you to think before you cast a disparaging remark about EITHER candidate in my presence. Now and in the future.

We’ve had enough fear-mongering and whining, and selfish greed. Let’s all insist on integrity and a little selflessness. Let’s get to work – being Americans. 

On a related note…this Christian author – Don Miller - shook up the conservative Christian community this morning with a post explaining why he’s supporting one candidate over another. Read it for yourself and then peruse the Twitter comments from today. Our selection of a president is serious, sobering business. Let us treat the job – and each other – with respect.