NO PHOTOGRAPHS, PLEASE!

That was my mantra for several days after a fairly major oral surgery procedure earlier this month. Swelling, bruising, and significant numbness along the left side of my face created lots of questions – some spoken, but most unspoken. My standard response became, “You should see the other guy.”

After a week or more of doggedly insisting that no one, under any circumstances, should point a camera my way, I was shocked when my neighbor sent me a link to this photo.

Governor Mike Beebe was in Fort Smith to dedicate the new Sebastian County Courts facility. Thankfully, the photographer shot from my right side. You can sorta see the left side of my smile is sorta stuck. Ohhhhh, well.

Tales of the Crypt – Van Buren style

This afternoon I ventured across the river and into downtown Van Buren for Fairview Cemetery’s annual “Tales of the Crypt” event. It’s a collaborative effort, with the Van Buren Historic District, Fairview Cemetery, the Van Buren A&P, and the UA Fort Smith’s historic interpretation program. I’m probably leaving off some other partnerships, but you get the idea.

The event was from 2 to 4 and I arrived sometime after 3pm. Almost 300 visitors had walked through the gate by the time I had arrived.

While I always enjoy Tales of the Crypt events – both in Van Buren and at Fort Smith’s historic Oak Cemetery – this event was especially meaningful to me. One of the historic interpretation students portrayed Edith Sessions. I never met her, but had the pleasure of spending time with her husband, Will Sessions, late in his life.

Will was a distinguished character with a booming voice. He was famous for his 5:30pm “suppers” where 6 to 8 people would gather for roast beef, canned corn, green beans, and toast. Will liked to rotate the guests – some first-timers or VIP guests from out of town – mingled with one or two “regulars.” Everyone – regardless of their stations in life – helped with preparation. Everyone also participated in discussions and in entertainment activities.

My specialty, for instance, was to read. When I was a guest, Will always selected a passage from a particular book. One of his favorites – and mine – was from Robert Fulghum’s All I Really Need to Know I Learned in Kindergarten. Others would sing and he would play the piano. Well, we all sang, but not with nearly as booming a voice as Will.

Will Sessions always had a story – whether from his time as an Army chaplain in WWII or as a young, poor preacher and part-time Bible salesman. But his favorite – and most compelling – stories were about his beloved bride, Edith.

Which brings me back around to today’s Tales of the Crypt. The student portraying Mrs. Sessions got to visit with the Sessions’ daughter. She reviewed lots and lots of materials and photos from Tovey. You see, Dr. Sessions was an accomplished author. He passed the love of the written word along to his children. Judge William Sessions served as FBI director under the Clinton administration.

DSC01339 It was fun today to watch Tiffany Nichols – a student in Tom Wing’s historical interpretation program at UA Fort Smith – portray Edith Sessions. I think the most fascinating part of her presentation, though, was when she stepped back out of character and answered questions from the audience. Her eyes lit up when she relayed first-hand conversations with Tovey and told stories about the Sessions’ life when they lived just up the hill from the cemetery.

One of my favorite stories directly from Will was about their wedding ceremony. They were part of a double-wedding, you see. And Will loved to re-live the minister’s words, “I now pronounce you ‘husbands and wives.’” Will joked that he thought perhaps he might have been married to both women all those years.

Edith developed Alzheimer’s disease and Will told stories of caring for her. He prided himself that he never institutionalized her – he cared for her lovingly and respectfully. Never, ever did I see him once mention Edith that he didn’t have tears in his eyes. Those tears – depending on the moment – represented love, good fortune for having been loved by her, sorrow that she was no longer at his side, and hope.

DSC01342Two very simple markers at Fairview Cemetery represent their life together. Today, Tiffany Nichols shared Edith and Will’s stories to some of us who knew one or both of them.

I know they are together in heaven. In fact, I hear that booming voice of Will’s – joyous that 101 years after Edith’s birth we’re still talking about the love of his life.

Where is my copy of Fulghum’s book, anyway?

 

DSC01331 I’ve uploaded all the photos I took today to my Flickr account.

It’s been awhile…

Since my last post at Tracyplaces.net.

I’ve been getting inquiries about the spare dog and am thankful to report that he is no longer a spare. The Chapmans, a couple I’ve known for about a year, met the spare dog and immediately fell for him. It seems to be a trend, doesn’t it?

Anyway, they have a friend – Jim – who is home most of the time. The Chapmans brought Jim over one evening and spare dog cuddled, played ball, and stole Jim’s heart.

I really think spare dog would have been pretty happy here with Principi and me, but he’d had a tough few months – maybe even a tough life. As much as he loves being around people, it just seemed fair that – given a choice – letting him live with someone home all the time is the best choice for him. Seems to me a 5 to 8 year old pooch deserves the very best, instead of just, “pretty happy.”

Jim was carrying spare dog as he walked out my front door. He turned to me and said, “I know it’s gonna break your heart when we walk out, but I thank you!”

You know what? It didn’t break my heart at all. Yes, I cried a little as I peeked out the window and watched them load up in the back seat of the Chapmans’ car, but I could tell – the two of them will be just fine.

The spare dog

Say hello to the spare dog at my house.

DSC01241Yes, in many respects, he looks like Moose. Same black and white coloring. Related breeds. Moose was a Lhasa Apso. This little guy is a Shi Tzu. They are cousins and both are compared in ancient Chinese and Tibetan cultures to lions. They are protective creatures and love sitting at the feet of their masters, watching, protecting, observing. Both breeds are intelligent, loyal, and generally very good company.

Oh, and while they’re small, they can be ferocious when their master is threatened. Great big bark and a violent bite in a small package.

This little guy showed up in a dangerous place on Fort Smith’s north side – on the back side of the street department’s property where heavy equipment is stored and transported to and from various construction jobs. Waymon found the scared, grimy pooch and took him to the office. The original game plan was to take him over to the humane society next door to the property. But this guy was so easy to be with and enjoyed people. Plus, many of the folks in the street department — including my friend Garry — noticed the resemblance to Moose. It had only been a day or so. My friends knew I was hurting and they hurt for me. They hurt for this little guy who clearly loved people.

I went over to the street department and decided to take in the pooch — at least for awhile, until we could find his owner or come up with another solution.

A trip to the vet provided some valuable information. He’s between 5 and 8 years old and in generally good health. He needs his teeth cleaned and he needs to be neutered. An ad in the paper generated a few phone calls and even an in-person visit, but no one has claimed him.

We’ve had some issues – he had absolutely no behavior skills when he arrived. No vocabulary. No boundaries. However, he has this amazing desire to please. He works sooooooo hard at making people happy. He loves to chase tennis balls and will run himself silly trying to make me happy. He hates being scolded. A quick, stern, “NO!” turns him into a pitiful trembling ball of fur, so we’re very careful to get our point across while still showing him love and affection. He’s getting more secure every day.

My folks were out of town when Moose took his last car ride, so they’re about a week behind in the grieving process. Plus, the past few weeks have dredged up old memories of our family’s first Lhasa Apso. Benji was a rescue. He was such a loyal, faithful, intelligent friend. My daddy took Benji to the vet one day as my folks were preparing to leave on an extended driving vacation. That was 20 years ago and my mom still cries because Daddy did the right thing, even though it was difficult.

This spare dog, though, reminds my mom of the time Benji ran away – trying to walk back to our old neighborhood just a few days after my folks moved to a new home in west Little Rock. She sees this little Shi Tzu and admires his tenacity. He is a survivor and desperately wants to be loved. My mama remembers how afraid she was for Benji – wandering around looking for the place he used to call home.

The spare dog and I have been sitting here on the front porch more than an hour. He’s made absolutely no attempt to leave from under my chair, even though Principi’s roaming about. Squirrels are scampering. Runners are trotting past. And walkers are being dragged by their leashed pets up the street.

He’s learned a few words. He loves Principi, and the cat is growing accustomed to being the hunted. With Moose, she was always the agitator, so it’s taking some getting used to, but she enjoys having a companion during the day.

As far as spare dog’s behavior issues are concerned, the vet says it’s pretty difficult to potty train a dog this age. However, he’s happy and well-behaved when confined to the sun room and kitchen during the day. At night, he’s content in the large crate beside my bed.

My wise mom is of the opinion that spare dog is ideally suited to a household with a retired couple – home most of the time. My brain wholeheartedly agrees. My heart mostly agrees. So if we can find someone like that, I’d give him to someone who had more time to spend with him.

In the meantime, my mom has floated a name for him. “Shadow.”

NASCAR funny

dustinlong Ryan Newman on Edward’s last-lap move: “He was wide open until he saw God and then he hit the brakes and bounced it off the wall.” 

I saw this earlier today on twitter and it cracked me up. It’s only funny if you’re a NASCAR fan and watched Carl Edwards make a banzai move on the last lap and tried like hades to beat the 48 to the finish line at Kansas Sunday.

Carl dove deep into the corner and kept his foot in the gas. No WAY he could turn the car going that fast. He hit the wall, then stuck his foot back into the throttle and dove to the inside to make one last run at Jimmie Johnson.

That’s hilarous. Wide open til he saw God. :)

Bass Reeves clay model approved

The Bass Reeves Legacy Initiative is an organization dedicated to preserving and enhancing the story of U.S. Deputy Marshal Bass Reeves.

The group’s first task is a monument honoring Bass Reeves. The sculpture is by noted Oklahoma artist Harold Holden. The project will cost approximately $300,000.

A couple of weeks ago, some members of the Bass Reeves Legacy Initiative traveled to Mr. Holden’s studio and previewed the clay model.

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Third photo is Harold Holden, posing with his work. Next is Chris Ashworth. The final image: Jim Spears, Edna Mae Holden, Bill Black, Chris Ashworth, and Mr. Holden.

Ray Gosack is the man behind the camera in all of these photos.

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Bailout from the perspective of a healthy bank

This is pretty interesting reading. An open letter from the President/CEO of BB&T to Members of Congress:

Here are the top 5 points to ponder:

  1. Freddie Mac and Fannie Mae are the primary cause of the mortgage crisis. These government supported enterprises distorted normal market risk mechanisms. While individual private financial institutions have made serious mistakes, the problems in the financial system have been caused by government policies including, affordable housing (now sub-prime), combined with the market disruptions caused by the Federal Reserve holding interest rates too low and then raising interest rates too high.
  2. There is no panic on Main Street and in sound financial institutions. The problems are in high-risk financial institutions and on Wall Street.
  3. While all financial intermediaries are being impacted by liquidity issues, this is primarily a bailout of poorly run financial institutions. It is extremely important that the bailout not damage well run companies.
  4. Corrections are not all bad. The market correction process eliminates irrational competitors. There were a number of poorly managed institutions and poorly made financial decisions during the real estate boom. It is important that any rules post “rescue” punish the poorly run institutions and not punish the well run companies.
  5. A significant and immediate tax credit for purchasing homes would be a far less expensive and more effective cure for the mortgage market and financial system than the proposed “rescue” plan.

http://scconservative.wordpress.com/2008/09/24/rescue-plan-from-a-healthy-banks-perspective/